What to focus on when doing new things

(by Daniel Adeyemi)*

I've noticed a trend when doing new things.  I mostly experience fear & uneasiness - many not so positive what-ifs. 

I wonder if expecting this feeling would make it any more bearable or easier to try out new things. 

I wonder if I should look at it as a warning sign or just a signal that this is something unfamiliar.

If I look at it as a warning sign, wha…